Since it’s February, I figured I’d better check in and see how I’m doing with my 2008 resolutions. Without having looked back at the list, I think I’m doing pretty well, but we’ll see. Following is a list of the resolutions and how I’ve done on each.
1. Write more consistently, whether journaling, blogging, or creative writing.
I have been blogging and journaling more, though not always publicly. I haven’t done any creative writing, though.
2. Find another outlet for article writing (since ComputorEdge has gone virtual.)
I sent a query letter to another computer magazine, but have received no response. I am considering writing for a website that gives ad revenue shares, but am still on the fence about that one. My experience with Associated Content leaves a lot to be desired, but much of that is probably on my shoulders for not marketing my writing there enough.
3. Publish some fiction. (Didn’t I say this last year?)
I’ve done nothing in this regard as yet.
4. Play more musical gigs.
Steel River Three has a gig scheduled on March 29th. That’s a start.
5. Start teaching my stepson how to play guitar (his request, my responsibility to follow up.)
We started on this, and he’s done a great job of learning the first position notes. It’s clear, though, that a full size guitar is not going to work for him right now. His left arm is not long enough to have proper hand position on the low frets, and that will lead to poor playing habits and frustration for him. This is what he needs, I think. Unlike some of the other mini guitars, it actually tunes to standard EADGBE tuning, which is important for playing along with other instruments.
6. Transplant my Variax electronics into a Carvin Bolt kit or Warmoth guitar body.
This takes money, and I’m not in a position to do it yet.
Physical & Mental Health
1. Learn how to get up earlier, consistently.
The first half of the month, I got up consistently at 6:00 AM. The second half of the month, though, I started taking new prescription meds (part of the mental health thing) and am still working out the adjustments to my sleep schedule.
2. Utilize my handheld BalanceLog software to track my eating and exercising habits.
I did this for about a week before I fell off the wagon. The odd thing is that I’m still losing weight.
3. Ride my bike or walk to work more often. (If I get up earlier, this is not a problem!)
I have ridden and walked a few times, but not as much as I’d hoped.
4. Schedule dental appointments to get my teeth taken care of.
I just added this one. It was already one of my goals, but I forgot to include it in the original Resolutions list. I’m certain I will need oral surgery; I have wisdom teeth that have come in vastly crooked over the years and are damaging the insides of my cheeks. I also have at least one extra tooth below the gum on the lower right that will probably need to come out. I’m not looking forward to this; I am very afraid of surgery, and the one surgery I’ve had didn’t go well. (It was outpatient surgery, and I had a panic attack in the middle of it.) Anyway, the dentist is lined up, I just need to make the appointment.
1. Get the amp out of the pawn shop, and never put it in again.
My plan is to get it out this month, then I’m going to learn how to play Fleetwood Mac’s “Never Goin’ Back Again” as a reinforcement to never take it back to the pawn shop.
2. Continue to provide quality computer consulting, but stop devaluing my services as much.
I’ve had several consulting gigs in the last month, and the small amount of extra money has helped. I haven’t raised my rates, but I also haven’t given away as much of my time (except to family, whom I don’t think I should charge.)
3. Keep current on space rent, car payment, mortgage, and car insurance.
The mortgage is current, the car payment is current, and the space rent will be current by next weekend, as will the car insurance. (The insurance is not in default, the payment is just late.) I’m considering talking to the mortgage company about changing our payment date, if possible.
4. Make a spending plan (a.k.a. budget) and stick to it.
I made the budget, but sticking to it has been hard. Part of the plan is to give both me and Lannette a specific amount of “mad money” per paycheck to spend as we wish, with the rest of my paycheck going to a household account for paying bills.
5. Track finances better with Quicken on computer and handheld.
After having some initial trouble getting Pocket Quicken to work with Quicken 2008 (and receiving very little helpful support from Landware, the developer of Pocket Quicken, who just dropped communication when they couldn’t solve the problem), I finally have my accounts syncing up correctly and am entering all transactions in the handheld. I know at any given time exactly how much money is available and when all bills clear.
1. Clean cat boxes daily.
This may sound silly, but I’m very proud of this one. Although I love my cats, I hate cleaning cat boxes, and that has led to behavioral problems (i.e. peeing on the floor) before. Every day in January, I cleaned both cat boxes, and it now feels like a habit, which was my goal. I also realized part of the way through the month that since I was cleaning the cat boxes, I may as well clean the ferret’s litter box daily, too, which had been my wife’s chore (by her choice.) Makes sense; I have the scooper, so I may as well do it, right? My thanks go out to the ZenHabits.net forums for providing a place to check in daily to reinforce the habit formation.
2. Help more with household chores without having to be asked.
I’ve done well with this over the last couple of weeks. I’ve kept up with the dishes and the trash (for the most part) and I’m finding that when I get started on one chore, the others naturally follow. I hope I can continue this habit.
3. Reduce household clutter gradually (this will help mental health, too.)
In addition to moving my main dresser to a more convenient location in the bedroom, I also picked up a suitcase that had been laying on the floor and constricting access to the master bathroom for months. One final toe-stubbing was all it took. There is still a lot of clutter, but this is something that I expect to work on a little at a time over the year. Otherwise, it will seem insurmountable.
4. Upgrade my computer (new mobo, RAM, and video.)
This really needs to happen, but I don’t have the money right now. My motherboard is losing track of its USB ports and it has started taking 5 minutes to POST when booted. 🙁
5. Replace carpet with hardwood flooring throughout the house.
I really hope we can do this this summer. It will take a good chunk of money and a lot of work, but it will get rid of the carpet that the cats ruined, will make the house easier to keep clean, and will increase the value of our home.
6. Landscape yard.
This is something that will have to happen in spring, if it happens, and it will just take some significant shovel and back work. (And money, again.)
7. Install carport/awning.
I would love it if I could build one of these this year. I can envision it, but I don’t know if I can afford to do it, either in terms of money or time.
Well, not bad. Of the twenty-two resolutions I set forth, I have made at least some progress on twelve of them, and taken steps toward another three. I feel good about that.
How are you guys doing on your resolutions?